3 Things Men Can’t Resist
» By Shipwreck - Nov 4th, 2007
Well my fluoro green shirt came out again this weekend…not to wear out at night, but to cover myself when I had to answer the door to the cops (it was the closest thing I could find!) A car windscreen had been smashed beneath my balcony and they were just asking if anyone had seen anything. So there was Shipwreck, standing in the hallway at around 3pm on a Saturday afternoon talking to the police in a bright fluoro shirt. Lucky they didn’t book me for wearing it!
I thought I’d let you in on three little things that guys can’t resist. Whether you’re trying to win over a guy or simply make him happy, the three simple things I’m about to tell you are keys to increasing attention or affection from the opposite sex.
Number 1 - A Woman Who Smiles
You might say the same thing about a guy. It makes you more approachable, appear more confident, and certainly more playful. Too often women hide their smile with a fear of attracting some men by mistake, and then having to reject them. I know that even if you do attract the wrong person, your confidence will be boosted. As the saying goes - ’smile and the whole world smiles with you’ 
:-)
Number 2 - A Woman Who Listens
Men often keep conversations superficial and avoid going into detail for fear of rejection, or of boring the opposite sex. Personally, I value a female that listens…it shows understanding, caring, and creates an instant bond. Listening is not only done with your ears, it can also be done with your eyes - look the guy in the eyes and you will see him either open up more, or race to get your clothes off - the connection can be electric!
Number 3 - A Woman Who Dresses Feminine
Men are very visual creatures. We like nice looking cars, houses, boats, and naturally…nice looking ‘Sharons’. Women often underestimate the power of visual stimulation. Take note though, you don’t have to be Jessica Alba or Scarlett Johansson to attract attention. Here’s how guys think - we like colours, curves and nice dresses. The more feminine you dress, the ’softer’ and more ‘cuddly’ you appear. Men like this quality in a woman. It’s not to say jeans and a tank top won’t get you a response, but I know for a fact that the girl that wears a nice summer dress in a pub or club will get far more attention than others.
…or if it’s attention you’re after, a fluoro green shirt is always the best answer
Category: dress sense, hints & tips, how to please your partner, listening, scoring points, smiling
Woman are very visual creatures. They like a man who smiles, a man who listens and a man who can dress to impress…. but not necessarily in a fluero shirt unless it is for a fancy dress party!
Actually if a guy is wearing something a little different- be it a fluro shirt, a top hat or crazy glasses he will ALWAYS get more attention by women. It makes an interesting talking/flirting point and girls love someone a little different who stands out from the crowd!
I’m not sure if this the right place to leave a comment? I’d like to see Shipwreck in something other than a green shirt! The picture just above responses is too small - wee bit like a leprechaun:)
Girls like it when you are yourself and you are kind of assertive. Try to overcome your fear of being shy and go for the girls you want. Girls like it a lot when they are complimented too so if you see a girl you like compliment her but not in a cheesy or reverted way, if you say something nice about her hair, clothes, shoes, she will most likely take that in a good way because most guys never notice those kind of things!!
My dresses are my favorite items in my wardrobe. There is nothing better than looking stunning in a dress.